stand sb.doing还是to do?另外再问个问题:She doesn't play it,me either还是me neither?

I'd like sb.doing sth.还是 to do sth. stand sb.doing还是to do?另外再问个问题:She doesn't play it,me either还是me neither? stand后跟to do还是doing? 是 stand doing sth.还是stand to do sth limit sb to do 还是to doing chanllenge sb to do 还是to doing? 是attract sb to do还是attract sb to doing? intend sb to do还是intend sb to doing suggest sb +doing 还是 to do teach sb doing还是to do warn sb后跟to do 还是doing left sb to do还是doing love sb后跟to do 还是doing prefer sb not to do? 还是doing? leave sb.doing还是to do appreciate sb to do还是doing 是suggest sb to do 还是 suggest sb doing? remind sb to do,还是remind sb doing sth?